Sunday, November 8, 2009
Life-altering Moments
faith is shaking, mindset is being reconstructed...and this is what i am experiencing right now.
i thought going back to singapore would be a great getaway for me to get those anecdotes and affairs and unrealistic thoughts off my mind, and hence i could move on with my life, like i have been doing for the past few years, i.e. usually, the moment i get off the plane, i will be "nouveau", whatever that has happened in the summer stays in the summer.
unfortunately, the summer of 2009 is destined to be one of the most life-altering and memorable in my life.
i have met so many people, for better or for worse, there were a few i would like to touch on, since they all taught me lessons that will help me survive in this mad mad world.
person A: i loved A, seriously, and i still do. but again, things ended neither badly nor in a good way. we had to split up, for all those unspeakable reasons.
lesson learnt: in a relationship, one would be selfish if he/she thinks that a relationship can only work in a way that he/she deems fit, and ignore what the other really wants, sometimes it's just overwhelming to some party and insufficient for the other.
person L: my big bro who i just knew for less than 3 months. strangely, we hit it off so quickly that neither of us could have expected. we were just two bored "kids" living in the city, and one day, we got connected, and ever since then, he became my new BFF.
lesson learnt: i first wanna thank him for companying me through my toughest time after i broke up with A. L showed me how a relationship should work with his own experience of a 7-year long partnership with his significant other. his successful career also reminded me that my priority now shouldn't be on unrelated others, it should be on myself.
people W,Y,S,H: needless to say, those are the best friends who i can speak freely with.
lesson learnt: apart from everything, good friends will always be there for you, whether you are high or down. so what if you are broke, the richest wealth you possess is your family and your friends, cos they are never gonna be "depreciated".
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a pic of me dressing up like devilish freak in a Halloween party taken by my dear friend from a local magazine, btw, people were madly in love with my hair!
i thought going back to singapore would be a great getaway for me to get those anecdotes and affairs and unrealistic thoughts off my mind, and hence i could move on with my life, like i have been doing for the past few years, i.e. usually, the moment i get off the plane, i will be "nouveau", whatever that has happened in the summer stays in the summer.
unfortunately, the summer of 2009 is destined to be one of the most life-altering and memorable in my life.
i have met so many people, for better or for worse, there were a few i would like to touch on, since they all taught me lessons that will help me survive in this mad mad world.
person A: i loved A, seriously, and i still do. but again, things ended neither badly nor in a good way. we had to split up, for all those unspeakable reasons.
lesson learnt: in a relationship, one would be selfish if he/she thinks that a relationship can only work in a way that he/she deems fit, and ignore what the other really wants, sometimes it's just overwhelming to some party and insufficient for the other.
person L: my big bro who i just knew for less than 3 months. strangely, we hit it off so quickly that neither of us could have expected. we were just two bored "kids" living in the city, and one day, we got connected, and ever since then, he became my new BFF.
lesson learnt: i first wanna thank him for companying me through my toughest time after i broke up with A. L showed me how a relationship should work with his own experience of a 7-year long partnership with his significant other. his successful career also reminded me that my priority now shouldn't be on unrelated others, it should be on myself.
people W,Y,S,H: needless to say, those are the best friends who i can speak freely with.
lesson learnt: apart from everything, good friends will always be there for you, whether you are high or down. so what if you are broke, the richest wealth you possess is your family and your friends, cos they are never gonna be "depreciated".
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a pic of me dressing up like devilish freak in a Halloween party taken by my dear friend from a local magazine, btw, people were madly in love with my hair!
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